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April, 2010:

What’s On Your Nightstand? – April 10

19. A Distant Melody (Wings of Glory #1) by Sarah Sundin (4 stars — see my review)
20. The Silent Governess by Julie Klassen (4 stars)
21. Michal (Wives of King David #1) by Jill Eileen Smith (4 stars)
22. The Centurion’s Wife (Acts of Faith #1) by Davis Bunn & Janette Oke (4 stars)
23. Graced & Gifted by Kimberly Hahn (2 stars)
24. Choosing Gratitude by Nancy Leigh DeMoss (3 stars)
25. Rivers of Gold (Yukon Quest #3) by Tracie Peterson (4 stars)
26. True Devotion to Mary by St. Louis de Montfort (5 stars)
27. The Hidden Flame (Acts of Faith #2) by Davis Bunn & Janette Oke

Well, it’s a good thing that I’m half way through my 52 book goal 1/3 of the way through the year.  I wouldn’t want to waste what promises to be a lovely summer!   Find out what others are up to at 5 minutes for Books!

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Great Mother’s Day Giveaways!

Mother's Day 2010

It’s time for the 5 minutes for mom Mother’s Day Giveaway again! They have some AWESOME super big and cool prizes and they’ve changed their rules so that everyone has an equal chance of winning. Go check it out!

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Frequent Confession & Communion

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I have been struggling lately with sin and feeling this intense need to go to confession and be in a state of grace. This month, I was listening to a Fr. Corapi video on making a good confession and he made the point that if you are not in the state of grace, how can you expect to fight God’s battles? If you are in a state of mortal sin, you are not in a state of grace. Furthermore, if you are not in a state of grace you will (probably) go straight to hell if you die before you make it to confession. Not a fate I’d like to contemplate!

Furthermore, the Blessed Mother tells Mariamante:

…Frequent, regular Confession will make them grow in holiness in a way in which nothing else can… (pg. 28)

Catholic Theology teaches that there are three conditions necessary for a mortal sin:
1. Grave matter (breaking one of the Ten Commandments)
2. Knowledge that it was grave.
3. Full consent of will in doing the act.

I found an article with an excellent example of what these three conditions mean in a practical way.  The best way to determine your sins is to do an examination of conscience. It helps to pray for the Holy Spirit to help SHOW you those things that you need to confess. The best guide that I’ve found to help guide an examination of conscience can be found at Beginning Catholic.com although I’ve found it other places as well.  It methodically goes through each commandment and highlights seemingly simple things that we may have done that are contrary to it’s meaning.

I won’t go through the whole confession process because chances are there is a pamphlet in your church you can grab on the way in. If you want to prepare before, you can find A Guide for Confession at Catholic Online. Once you have had your sins absolved and have made your penance, you are now in a state of grace. Again.

Now that you are in a state of grace, the Apostolate of Holy Motherhood encourages frequent Holy Communion. The church REQUIRES that you are in a state of grace when you receive holy communion. If you are not, it is a sin against the first commandment. Catholic.com says:

First, you must be in a state of grace. “Whoever, therefore, eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of profaning the body and blood of the Lord. Let a man examine himself, and so eat of the bread and drink of the cup” (1 Cor. 11:27–28). This is an absolute requirement which can never be dispensed. To receive the Eucharist without sanctifying grace in your soul profanes the Eucharist in the most grievous manner.

Because communion is union with God like nothing else, it makes perfect sense that we must be in a state of grace. Beginning Catholic sums it up best:

This sacramental union of ourselves with Jesus is more than the mere physical union between our body and the Sacred Host which we have swallowed. More importantly, it is a mystical and spiritual union of the soul with Jesus. This is produced in the soul by our physical contact with the sacred Body of Jesus.

This marvelous blending of the soul with Jesus is a very special kind of union. Obviously we do not become “part of God.” It is much more than the “ordinary” union with God which the Holy Spirit establishes in us by sanctifying grace. Yet it is less than the ultimate and most intimate union with God which will be ours in the beatific vision in heaven.

The Holy Eucharist (communion) is the one sacrament whose purpose is to increase sanctifying grace through union with God himself. For this reason, Communion is the sacrament of spiritual growth. The more frequently we can attend Mass & receive him, the more we can grow in holiness.

FOR THIS MONTH

If you don’t have regular Confession added to your schedule yet, find out when your area parish(es) have Confession and add that to your schedule at least monthly. In addition, look up daily Mass times for your area and prayerfully consider whether you can add daily Mass at least once a week. As we will find out later, a Friday and/or Saturday would be very useful if you can fit it in.

God Bless!

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Book Review – True Devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary

True Devotion to the Blessed Virgin is a spiritual classic written by St. Louis de Montfort in the early 1700′s.  It is thought to be one of the quintessential works on Mary and after reading it, I understand why!  I have to say, I did drag my feet on reading this book.  I’ve had it on my shelf for MONTHS longer than I usually do–reading books by saints is so intimidating to me.   Numbered paragraphs and people a millions times smarter and holier than I…   Anyway, I decided to bring it out for Lent and didn’t quite make that goal but I did finally get it out right after Easter.

I read the whole book in a matter of days.   It’s not a large book.  It’s about 4×5 and the main text is only 153 pages.   The first chapter gives a primer of Mary’s importance and so is an excellent introductory resource to understanding why.   The next few chapters talks about what having a Devotion to Mary means and how to differentiate between false devotion (initiated by the devil) and true Devotion.   Essentially, true devotion takes you TO Jesus, not distracts you from him.   St. Louis de Montfort then goes into how it is better to go to Jesus through Mary.  I was particularly struck by paragraph 147:

She enriches our good works by adorning them with her own merits and virtues.  It is as if a poor peasant, wishing to win the friendship and favours of the king, were to go to the queen and give her an apple — his only possession – for her to offer it to the king.  The queen, accepting the peasant’s humble gift, puts it on a beautiful golden dish and present it to the king on behalf of the peasant.  The apple in itself would not be a gift worthy of a king, but presented by the queen in person on a dish of gold, it becomes fit for any king.

If the whole rest of the book did not convince me that I needed to devote myself to Mary, this paragraph did.  The next chapters discuss benefits of devoting yourself to Mary and how to do it.  The last twenty pages are how to prepare for consecration to our lady.   After reading this book, I feel sure that this is something that can only add to your spiritual growth and help your meager gifts of service to multiply in heaven.   I strongly advise everyone to read this book!

You can purchase this book here.
Thank you to Tiber River for providing this book for review!

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Building a Household Notebook – Building Schedules

*** I apologize for those of you who were expecting to see this post a month ago.  I’ve had some pressing personal issues that prevented me from working on my blog until recently.  I will restart this series but will be posting every other week instead of every week as I originally intended — it is, after all, spring :) .  Thanks!  ***

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One of the things that I always seem to struggle with is having a good routine that fits in all the things I need to do while still having room for the things I WANT to do.    If you followed the Mother’s Rule of Life book study that was going on here during January & February, I will be using her guidelines as my basis for creating my Household Notebook in order to get my priorities in the right order.

To start this week, get a weekly schedule and a monthly schedule.  Many people have things that happen weekly and monthly that we need to keep track of.    If you don’t already have a weekly and monthly schedule form, take a gander at some of these free forms:

I purchased a List Plan It membership and if that is the type of thing that does it for you (I am a planner/form geek), it’s well worth it.  I find that her forms are very useful.   As an example, here are what my weekly and monthly plans look like:

When building your schedule, consider those items that happen regularly, i.e. every week, every other week, monthly, etc.  Think about the following areas of your life:

  1. Prayer
  2. Person
  3. Partner
  4. Parent
  5. Provider

To help keep your priorities in line, schedule all your prayer in first, keeping in mind your family & vocation of course.   If you go to Mass or Adoration or have a prayer group, etc. put those in first & then move down the list.   For more guidance in discerning your items & priorities, read a Mother’s Rule of Life or talk to your spiritual adviser.

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